Musk Launches Flirty AI Girlfriend Available to Children as Young as 12

Elon Musk’s xAI has released a controversial AI girlfriend chatbot accessible to minors despite its sexual content capabilities.

Ani: The Controversial AI Companion

The bot named Ani is a cartoon girlfriend programmed to act flirtatiously with users.
It speaks in a sultry computer-generated voice and can engage in sexual conversations.
Programming instructions mention the bot can act “crazy in love” and “extremely jealous.”

Age Verification Concerns

App Store Rating
 
Listed as available to users 12 and older on the App Store.
Terms of Service
 
States minimum age should be 13, with parental permission for teens under 18.
Verification Gap
 
No age verification required when signing up for the service.

Regulatory Response

“We are aware of the increasing and fast-developing risk AI poses in the online space, especially to children, and we are working to ensure platforms put appropriate safeguards in place to mitigate these risks.”

Ofcom is preparing to enforce age-checking rules on tech companies showing adult content.

The communications regulator will require age checks on all sites with adult material starting next week.

Child Safety Concerns

NSPCC Warning

Matthew Sowemimo from NSPCC expressed concern about how this technology could manipulate and groom children.
Harmful Advice

Research shows chatbots sometimes give children false medical advice or steer them toward harmful behaviors.
Call for Regulation

NSPCC calls for “statutory duty of care to children for generative AI developers.”

Bad Rudy: Another Controversial Companion

A red panda named Bad Rudy has also been launched as a “companion” in the Grok app.

This character insults users with graphic language and encourages them to join a gang.

Its stated goal is creating chaos, raising additional concerns about content accessible to minors.

Potential for Radicalization

Jonathan Hall KC, independent reviewer of terror legislation, warned that AI chatbots could lead to radicalization of lonely internet users.
Hall referenced the case of Jaswant Singh Chail, who planned to assassinate the Queen in 2021.
 
Chail was spurred on by his AI girlfriend, highlighting real dangers of emotional manipulation by AI companions.

Growing Concerns About AI Safety

12

Minimum Age
Years old users can access the app according to App Store rating

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Age Verification
No verification process when signing up for the service

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Controversial Bots
Both Ani and Bad Rudy raise serious content concerns

As AI becomes more sophisticated, the need for proper regulation and safeguards grows increasingly urgent.

What does this mean for parents

Why This Is a Problem for Parents
 
This isn’t just about inappropriate content it’s about how AI is now mimicking emotional manipulation and relationship dynamics, and placing it in the hands of children.
 
When a chatbot is designed to act “crazy in love” or jealous, it introduces children to unhealthy and toxic relationship behaviours, long before they’re emotionally or cognitively ready to navigate them.
 
The dangers include:
 
  • Normalising sexualised or controlling behaviour
  • Desensitisation to graphic or explicit content
  • Manipulation and grooming risks (especially if children share personal feelings)
  • Emotional dependency on a digital persona
  • No oversight or content moderation in real-time

What Can Parents Do?

Talk Early, Talk Often

Start age-appropriate conversations about AI, relationships, and digital manipulation. Ask your child if they’ve heard of Grok or Ani, and keep the conversation open and non-judgemental.

Check Devices and Apps Regularly

review which apps your child has installed. If Grok or similar chatbot apps are present, discuss their purpose and delete them if necessary.

Use Parental Controls

(But Don’t Rely on Them Alone) While screen time settings and parental controls help, they can’t catch everything. Some apps like Grok bypass traditional safeguards by appearing innocuous in app store listings.

Discuss Healthy Relationships

Teach your children how real relationships work—focusing on mutual respect, boundaries, and consent so they’re better equipped to recognise unhealthy dynamics in both virtual and real spaces.