The Dark Web: What Parents Need to Know

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The Dark Web might sound like something out of a movie, but it is real—and children are getting curious about it. Some hear about it on TikTok, YouTube, or Reddit and want to explore.

However, the Dark Web is not just a hidden part of the internet. It is full of dangerous and unregulated content. If you are a parent, it is important to understand what it is, how children access it, and how to check if your child is using Tor, the most common tool for getting there.

What is the Dark Web?

The internet has three main layers:

  • Surface Web – This is the part that everyone uses daily, such as Google, YouTube, and Instagram.
  • Deep Web – This includes private sites such as online banking, school portals, and emails. These require a login to access.
  • Dark Web – This is the hidden part of the internet that cannot be found through normal search engines and requires special software, such as Tor, to access.

The Dark Web itself is not illegal, but much of the activity that happens there is.

How Do Children Get on the Dark Web?

To access the Dark Web, children do not just stumble upon it. They need a browser called Tor (The Onion Router).

How They Get Tor:

  1. They download it for free from the official website: torproject.org.
  2. They install it on their computer or phone.
  3. They open the browser and start exploring hidden websites.

Why This is a Concern:

  • Tor hides browsing history, making it difficult for parents to track activity.
  • It can bypass parental controls.
  • It allows access to harmful and illegal content.

What is on the Dark Web?

The Dark Web is not a safe place for children. While some people use it for privacy reasons, it is also where a lot of illegal activity takes place. Some of the most concerning things found there include:

  • Stolen data, such as hacked accounts and personal details.
  • Marketplaces selling drugs and fake IDs.
  • Hacking tools and scams.
  • Disturbing and illegal content.
  • Anonymous chatrooms where online predators hide.

This is why it is important for parents to stay aware and have open conversations with their children.

How to Check If Tor is Installed on Your Child’s Device

If you are concerned that your child might be using Tor, here is how you can check:

On Windows (PC & Laptop):

  1. Click the Start Menu and type “Tor” in the search bar.
  2. If Tor is installed, it will appear in the search results.
  3. You can also check in Settings > Apps and look through the list for “Tor Browser.”

On Mac (Apple Computers):

  1. Click the Finder (the blue smiley face icon).
  2. Go to Applications and look for “Tor Browser.”
  3. If it is listed, Tor has been installed.

On Android Phones & Tablets:

  1. Open the Google Play Store.
  2. Search for “Tor Browser.”
  3. If the app shows as “Installed,” then it is on the device.

On iPhones & iPads:

Tor is not available in the App Store, but children can still access the Dark Web using private browsers such as Onion Browser. To check for these, go to Settings > Safari > Installed Apps and look for any unfamiliar browsers.

Can You Block the Dark Web?

Most parental control apps do not block Tor, but there are a few things you can do:

  • Regularly check for Tor using the steps above.
  • Use your home router settings to block Tor traffic. Some advanced routers have this option.
  • Have open conversations with your child about online safety rather than relying solely on blocking.

How to Talk to Your Child About the Dark Web

Instead of scaring them, try having an open discussion:

  • Start with a question such as, “Have you ever heard of the Dark Web?”
  • Explain that it is not just a secret internet, but a place full of scams and dangerous people.
  • If they are interested in online privacy, show them safer alternatives such as VPNs instead of Tor.

Final Thoughts

The Dark Web is not a mystery—it is a risky place filled with things no child should see. Instead of just blocking access, parents should stay involved, have conversations, and make sure their child knows they can always come to them if they encounter something worrying online.